If you're thinking about homeschooling or you’ve just taken the leap, you might be feeling a mix of excitement and overwhelm. I’ve been there. When I first started homeschooling, I had all these Pinterest-perfect ideas in my head. I imagined cozy mornings with hot cocoa and history books, perfectly organized shelves, and kids who joyfully completed every assignment. Reality? Let’s just say it didn’t always look like that—and that’s okay.
Looking back, there are so many things I wish someone had told me before I started this journey. So, I’m sharing them here in hopes that it helps you feel more prepared, less alone, and maybe even a little excited to forge your own path.
1. You Don’t Need to Recreate Public School at Home
This was a big one. In the beginning, I tried to replicate the school structure I was used to—hour-by-hour schedules, desk time, even a little bell (yes, really). But homeschooling gives you the freedom to do things differently. Learning doesn’t need to happen from 8am to 3pm. It can happen while cooking, during a nature walk, or curled up on the couch with a good book. Embracing a more flexible rhythm made everything more joyful and less stressful.
2. It’s Okay to Try Different Styles Until You Find What Works
I had no idea there were different styles of homeschooling—Charlotte Mason, Classical, Unschooling, Eclectic, and more. At first, I felt like I had to pick one and stick with it forever. But homeschooling isn’t one-size-fits-all. Over time, we’ve blended what works for each child and each subject. Give yourself permission to explore, experiment, and evolve.
3. Curriculum Isn’t Everything
I used to think the right curriculum would solve all my problems. I spent hours researching, comparing, and second-guessing my choices. What I’ve learned is that no curriculum is perfect. It’s a tool, not a solution. What matters most is how it fits your family’s learning style and whether it supports your goals—not how popular or expensive it is.
4. Kids Learn at Their Own Pace—and That’s a Good Thing
One of the biggest blessings of homeschooling is allowing kids to grow and learn at their own pace. My daughter has apraxia of speech, and even though she goes to therapy and I practice with her every day, reading is still something we’re gently working through. She’s in the early stages, and that’s okay. I've learned not to compare her progress to anyone else’s. Instead, we celebrate small wins and keep moving forward one step at a time. Homeschooling allows us the space to support her learning in a way that truly fits her needs. Trusting the process and meeting our children where they are makes all the difference.
5. You Will Doubt Yourself (A Lot), But That Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing
There have been so many nights I’ve lain in bed wondering if I’m doing enough or doing it right. That kind of self-doubt is normal. What matters is that you keep showing up, loving your kids, and being willing to learn alongside them. Remember: no one knows your children better than you do.
6. Socialization Looks Different—But It’s Still There
I used to cringe when people asked, “But what about socialization?” I’ve learned that socialization doesn’t have to mean sitting in a classroom with 30 same-aged peers. My kids interact with people of all ages—at co-ops, in the community, at church, and through extracurricular activities. It’s richer and more natural than I expected.
7. Some Days Will Be Hard (and That’s Normal)
Not every day will be magical. There are days when no one wants to do math, the toddler spills paint on your lesson plans, and you seriously consider enrolling everyone in school by lunchtime. These days don’t mean you’re not cut out for this. They just mean you’re human. Take a break, regroup, and try again tomorrow.
8. Community Is Everything
I didn’t realize how much I’d need support until I was in the thick of it. Finding a homeschool community—whether in person or online—was a game-changer. It gave me people to vent to, swap ideas with, and learn from. Don’t try to do this alone. Seek out your tribe—you’ll be glad you did.
9. You’re Not Just Teaching Academics—You’re Building a Life
Homeschooling isn’t just about reading and math. It’s about character, habits, faith, values, and life skills. Some of our best learning has happened while baking together, talking through big feelings, or doing yard work. Don’t underestimate the power of those everyday moments—they’re shaping your kids in beautiful ways.
10. You Will Grow Just As Much as Your Kids
I thought homeschooling was about helping my kids learn, but I’ve grown just as much as they have. I’ve become more patient, more flexible, and more in tune with what really matters. I’ve rediscovered a love for learning, and I’ve learned to slow down and savor this season of life.
Final Thoughts
Homeschooling is not easy—but it is incredibly rewarding. If you’re just getting started, know this: you don’t have to have it all figured out. You will make mistakes. You will change course. And that’s all part of the journey. Give yourself grace, trust your instincts, and enjoy the precious time you get with your children.
If you’ve already started homeschooling, I’d love to know: what’s something you wish you knew before beginning? Drop it in the comments—I’d love to hear from you!
And if you found this post helpful, feel free to share it with a friend who's just getting started. We all need a little encouragement as we navigate this path together.
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Nancy at Cleverly Kindred ❤️
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